Love

Okay. Before this, I'm gonna want those who aren't in any relationships to know this. I wished that I knew all these before I get into the relationship.

• You must love yourself.
• You must learn to trust.
• You must learn to be tough.
• You have him/her doesn't mean they are all yours. 

If you think you are capable of achieving them. I think you're good to go.

Love - something not everyone is good at.

Men and women are both individuals coming from a different world and trying to love each other's flaws.

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Look. If you love yourself. Girl. You ain't gonna get broken down by anything happened between both of you. You know how to take care of yourself for yourself. You learn how to dress up sometimes for yourself because you want to. (not showing it to anybody). You put on makeup to look gorgeous at the day. You don't do things that are stated for anyone. You do all them for your OWN. Every little detail you do to be a better person or better-looking person is a great way to know that you're learning to love and embrace yourself.

If you trust him/her. There's nothing holding you guys back. If you're in LDR. You guys trust each other that you'll not overthink about the situation such as him or her cheating on you because you guys know it's worth the wait. Of course, it is incredibly hard, especially for LDR. Trust is such a fragile yet sturdy. We all have the time when we doubt at ourselves or our partner but if you know he deserves the trust. Go with your guts.

Learning to be tough isn't hard. Right? Everyone knows how to look tough. Being tough and looking tough is two very different thing. We must know which side are we belong to. If you realized that you're looking tough but deep inside you always feel insecure. It's time to change your thinking and mindset. Why must we be tough when you have a partner? Oh well, here's the problem. Being tough here is indeed an important thing because when something bad happened between both of you. You guys need to be tough at handling your feelings. You need to be tough enough to know what is appropriate to say and what is not. Although one of you have to express your feelings, it's not about YOU, it's both of you. 0.5+0.5=1. If you're eager to say something that hurt each other. Keep it. Because you're gonna regret it later. Instead, change your tone or the way you present the sentence to them. Things will be better.

Lastly, yes. You took each other's heart. The thing is you guys have feelings for each other and being lovely and caring for each other. It's wonderful. Remember that your partner is a person, not a pet or someone who can be with you for 24/7. They have their own life to live with, they have their story to write in their life. Remember, you have it too. Being clingy and being with each other for 24/7 may or may not be a good thing. Sticking with each other once in a while is good. You guys can do what you want whenever you want, right? When it's too much. Either of you will start to get bored or maybe they feel like they need their own personal space to do something. It's not that they don't want you anymore, it is just that they want some time for themselves to do things alone.

Being in a relationship can be easy but it can be hard. The most important thing, either of you should open up to each other about anything. Share your story to each other because you chose him/her. Don't let them feel like they're just someone who needs to take care of you or letting them feel ignored.